{"id":3994,"date":"2020-04-06T05:58:21","date_gmt":"2020-04-06T08:58:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.intuicao.com\/?page_id=3994"},"modified":"2020-04-04T07:36:43","modified_gmt":"2020-04-04T10:36:43","slug":"o-medo-de-perder","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intuicao.com\/bk\/o-medo-de-perder\/","title":{"rendered":"O medo de perder"},"content":{"rendered":"

O medo de perder.<\/h1>\n

Por N\u00e1dia de Castro<\/p>\n


\nUm dos maiores empecilhos para uma vida plena, harm\u00f4nica, mais expressiva e significativa, \u00e9 o medo de perder; sobretudo, o medo de perder algu\u00e9m<\/strong>, o medo de perder algu\u00e9m que n\u00f3s dizemos amar, o medo de perder a esposa ou esposo, os filhos, os amigos, o cliente.<\/p>\n

Esta emo\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 a principal respons\u00e1vel pelo nosso sofrimento na vida.<\/p>\n

O medo de perder \u00e9 o medo de nos tornarmos desnecess\u00e1rios para a pessoa com a qual nos relacionamos.<\/strong> O medo de perder se reveste de mil e uma formas, aparece sob mil disfarces: medo de sermos criticados por algu\u00e9m, medo de que falem mal de n\u00f3s, medo de que nos humilhem, medo de sermos abandonados, medo de sermos rejeitados, medo de n\u00e3o sermos importantes, medo de n\u00e3o sermos ilustres, medo de sermos menosprezados, medo de n\u00e3o sermos amados, medo da solid\u00e3o. E tudo isso pode ser designado mais claramente por uma palavra: ci\u00fame.<\/p>\n

O ci\u00fame \u00e9 o medo de n\u00e3o ter algu\u00e9m, de n\u00e3o possuir algu\u00e9m, de n\u00e3o vir a ser dono de algu\u00e9m. Na rela\u00e7\u00e3o ciumenta, nos colocamos e o outro como objetos.<\/strong> Nesta rela\u00e7\u00e3o, pessoa e objeto s\u00e3o a mesma coisa.<\/p>\n

No ci\u00fame, temos medo de sermos algum dia considerados in\u00fateis<\/strong>, dispens\u00e1veis a outra pessoa. Esta \u00e9 a emo\u00e7\u00e3o do sofrimento, a emo\u00e7\u00e3o do apelo, a emo\u00e7\u00e3o da rela\u00e7\u00e3o confusa, misturada, dependente. E o que a agrava \u00e9 que na nossa cultura aprendemos do ci\u00fame como sendo amor. E o ci\u00fame \u00e9 justamente o contr\u00e1rio. O ci\u00fame \u00e9 o oposto do amor.<\/p>\n

Todos n\u00f3s fomos criados para seguirmos em \u201cfrente e para o alto\u201d na evolu\u00e7\u00e3o humana, aos \u201colhos\u201d de Deus todos somos escola e alunos, ningu\u00e9m pertence a ningu\u00e9m, somos irm\u00e3os, COMPANHEIROS DE VIAGEM.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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\nN\u00e1dia de Castro<\/a>, terapeuta hol\u00edstica e consultora em harmoniza\u00e7\u00e3o e radestesia.
\nFoto: disponibilizada por Pixabay
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